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How to take control by letting go
Live with fewer rules - love life more

“Don't dream it, be it”.
Life is what you make of it.
Don’t let anyone or anything take control of your life- it’s yours and you need to make it the best you can!
Believe it or not, living with fewer rules, means you get can get more done and this will give your life more direction, focus and significance. If you want to achieve more, have more, and live more, you’ve got to accept this guiding principle: when you live life on your terms, limits aren’t real.
When you follow the rules of others, by default, you are accepting their terms, their constraints, their conditions and their boundaries. Remember you are the boss of you, you are the one who determines how far you go and how you live. Many of us feel a safety net of living by the rules and constraints as an easy way to live, to let others do the work and you can the just follow along.
Stop focusing your mind on all the reasons why you shouldn’t do something. Instead, make a list of reasons why you should. Consider all the things you could do right. It will change the way you see the situation.
It is easy to stick with the status quo, the way things have been done by others. Positive and significance change, advancement and breakthrough had to prevail the normal rules and regulations.
Consider these 6 ways to aid you to succeed:
Become aware of what's most important to you. You make the rules in your life!
Invest your time in meaningful things.
Give your energy and gratitude to things that actually matter.
Exercise loving kindness and work on good quality relationships.
Leave space to do nothing.
Surround yourself with minds that will inspire you and fuel you to positive change.
As a result, your life will feel happier and more filled with what you value more, quality time in relationships, more time for relaxation, time to enjoy the most significant things in life and time to change for the better.
WhatsApp me to arrange a one to one meeting to keep your life focused on what you want and live with fewer constraints now! More time, more directed focus, more joy & fulfilment and less stress is the way forward.
Don’t dream it, live it!
Life is good,
Lisa
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